Jefferson Dickson Putnam
A visitation memorial get-together for Jefferson Dickson Putnam, 69, West Plains, Missouri, will be held from 2:00 until 4:00 p.m., Saturday, January 12, 2013, in the Langston Street Chapel of Robertson-Drago Funeral Home.
Mr. Putnam died at 3:05 p.m., Wednesday, December 26, 2012, at Ozarks Medical Center.
He was born May 3, 1943, at Montgomery, Alabama, to Dr. Dickson and Grace McGinnis Putnam. He attended West Plains High School and later graduated high school from Cascia Hall, Tulsa, Oklahoma in 1962. He also attended summer sessions at Culver Military Academy in Culver, Indiana with three years in the equestrian school featuring the famous Black Horse Troop that participated in the Presidential Inaugural Parade and went to St. Louis University for two years. On August 27, 1983, he was married to, as he always said, his soul mate, Saundra (Sandy) Reasons Hale. After having worked for Culligan for several years, he opened his own water treatment company, H2Ozarks, in Doniphan, Missouri. Jeff loved children of all ages and they all loved him. He also loved his dog, Tramp, computers and video games with all of his young friends that came to play and visit with him, old cars, photography, music, the Current River and Norfork Lake, fishing with his grandsons and most of all his family, friends and neighbors. He also loved airplanes and knew the history of most every plane built and as a young man had his pilot’s license. Jeff’s dazzling smile was ever present and could bring light to the darkest situation. And, his hugs were wonderful and could heal your heart. His kind, gentle nature and always wanting to make people laugh, brought joy to all who knew him. He never met a stranger. One of his favorite sayings was “no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should” from the Max Ehrmann poem Desiderata. He was a loving and devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend to many and will be greatly missed by all who knew and loved him. He will forever be in our hearts and memories.
He is survived by his loving wife, Sandy; his children, Jeff Putnam III and wife, Lisa, St. Louis, Missouri and their sons, J.D. IV and Lance; Tamara Putnam, Prairie Village, Kansas and her sons, Zane, Marcus and Dylan Meeks; Lisa Brassfield and husband, Jim West Plains, Missouri and their children, Preslee Sukow, Jacob Brassfield and Jamie Hollingshad, husband Zac; Brian Hale, Harrison, Arkansas and his children, Ashley and Evan Hale; his mother-in-law, Mae Reasons, West Plains, Missouri; father-in-law, T. J. Reasons, wife, Rita, Sparta, Missouri; brother-in-law, Tim Reasons, Orange, Texas; and three sisters, Michelle Tallent, husband, Jeff, Edmond, Oklahoma, Rosalie Putnam, Marina del Rey, California and Maria Jindra, husband, Jeffery, Colorado Springs, Colorado; and many nieces and nephews and their families.
His parents and brother-in-law, Jim Reasons, precede him in death.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be made to St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital, and may be left at Robertson-Drago Funeral Home.
An Irish wake is being planned by Jeff and Tamara Putnam and their mother, Frances Watkins Wightman, to be held at a later date. For details on their plans, email [email protected].
Edward (Ed) Petrus
December 31, 2012 @ 9:04 pm
Last saw Jeff when he was selling cars in Mountain Grove, Mo. My wife (Jeanie) and I remember a lot of good times we had with Jeff and Sandy at Cloud 9 Ranch when he was a salesman there. He will be missed by all that knew him.
Donna Sandlin
January 1, 2013 @ 12:25 pm
My prayers are with this family. God, please give them strength and love.
Sara Skillin (Watts)
January 2, 2013 @ 8:08 pm
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. He will be missed by many.
Paula Ritter England
January 4, 2013 @ 12:23 pm
Maria,
I just wanted you to know my thoughts are with you and your family. Jeff sounds like quite a guy….and I can’t believe how much he looks like your father!
Paula
Maria Putnam Jindra
January 12, 2013 @ 11:17 am
Paula, Thank you for you very kind condolences. Jefthro does resemble Dad in many many ways. He was the kindest and most gentle person I know. He spread optimism in any situation, loved nature, called up each member of his family every Thanksgiving to say, Gobble, Gobble, Gobble. I will miss our long talks on the phone, his giant bear hugs, passing emails back and forth frequently.
His jokes, and stories. Pictures of his daffodils popping up in the Spring. Of the entire family, Jeff was the most spiritually evolved and always flew miles higher than the rest of us. I can only pray, that by his example, I too can set my sites on soaring grossly higher than I have in the past. It is comforting to know that Jefthro D Great is now surrounded in God’s Love and beauty of a well deserved Paradise. Rest in amazing peace and beauty Dear Jefthro, you deserve these continued blessings. You are the greatest brother a girl could ever wish to have. Wow, were we lucky! Come pay us a visit when you can Jeff.
Ursula Milen
January 8, 2013 @ 3:47 pm
Sandy,
Jeff told me every time we talked how lucky he was to have found you…..Special lady…
All my spedcial thoughts & prayers go to you. Please keep in touch with me…
Love
Ursula Mielen
St George, Ut.
Sandy
January 14, 2013 @ 4:42 pm
Dear Ursala, Thank you so much for your kind words. Jeff sure enjoyed talking to you often. He’d say “Cuz called today” and would smile his radiant smile.
So sorry for your loss, too. He was the GOODest man I’ve ever known or
ever will know. I miss him terribly….. it still isn’t real to me.
Thank you again, Hugs and Love, san