Betty Louise Southards
Funeral services for Betty Louise Southards, 85, Sycamore, Missouri, will be held at 11:00 a.m., Saturday, March 10, 2018 at Needmore Church of God, under the direction of Robertson-Drago Funeral Home.
Mrs. Southards passed to her eternal reward on March 5, 2018. She was born on April 13, 1932, the youngest child of Norton and Christena Pease. Raised during the depression on their family farm near Dora, Missouri, Louise learned the value of hard work, resourcefulness and good stewardship from a young age. Louise loved learning and was an excellent student, which led to her graduating as the valedictorian of her class in 1949. She carried this determination to do her best, whatever the circumstances, throughout her lifetime. After high school, Louise married James Southards, who was the love of her life. Together they cherished two children, Eddie and Brenda. When Louise was 23 years old she became a Christian. She grew in her faith at the Rock Hill Church of God, St. Louis, Missouri and used her talents to faithfully serve the church in many different ways over the years. Louise worked 25 years at the Meramec Community College bookstore, ending her career as the bookstore manager. Louise and James retired to the Southards family homestead at Sycamore, Missouri. She designed their home for family gatherings, welcoming her children and grandchildren with open arms. She expressed love for her family and others in many ways, including the wonderful meals she made, the generous gifts she provided and other daily blessings that she gave with joy. In this way, her life reflected deep faith and embodied God’s tenderhearted love. During their retirement, Louise and James were active in the Needmore Church of God at Dora, Missouri. There they worked together for nearly 30 years in many different ways alongside their friends and neighbors to help share the gospel with the community. She was also a member of the Sweeton Pond Cemetery Board.
Louise is survived by one son, Eddie Southards and wife, Ruth; one daughter, Brenda Proebsting and husband, Fred; five adored grandsons, Dr. Eric Proebsting and wife, Kelly, Tim Southards and wife, Shari, Todd Proebsting and wife, Sarah, Reverend Steve Southards and wife, Erin and Ben Southards; she also shared the joy of nine great-grandchildren. She will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
She was preceded in death by her parents, her husband of 66 years, as well as her siblings, Joyce Bell, Dallas Pease and Doris Stout.
Visitation will be held from 4:30 until 7:30 p.m., Friday, at Robertson-Drago Funeral Home. Burial will be in the Ball Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to Needmore Church of God or Ball Cemetery and may be left at Robertson-Drago Funeral Home.
ina warren
March 7, 2018 @ 3:45 pm
Eddie & Brenda, I am so sorry for the loss of your mother. She was a wonderful Christian friend whom I enjoyed getting to know. We loved it when she commented on the scriptures in Sunday School. I looked to her for answers of things I didn’t understand. She will be missed greatly. Sympathy and love to the family Ina Warren
willie swofford
March 8, 2018 @ 8:41 am
Louise was a very sweet woman. I would visit with her at campmeeting or she would sing in the choir with our church. A very caring women of God. We will miss her.
David and Patty Smith
March 8, 2018 @ 12:01 pm
Ed & Ruth and Brenda & Fred and Families,
We are so sad to hear of the passing of your Mom, She was such a wonderful example of Jesus to everyone she met. Praying for you all at this difficult time.
Dave & Patty Smith
Clara Smith
Leon & Connie Hammond
March 9, 2018 @ 11:36 am
Sending love and appreciation for a life well lived.
Stephanie Hammond
March 9, 2018 @ 11:42 am
As we shared the news, we also have been sharing so many special memories of Louise and your whole family– Rock Hill was such an amazing place to grow up and she was a big part of that. Louise was super sweet and patient when she helped supervise me on clean up days. I picture her fishing at Camp Sharon and always so inviting for our family to come and visit. She had smile and calm that made me feel safe and loved whenever she was around. Her legacy is her family and that says everything. What a treasure!
Rosemary Owens
March 9, 2018 @ 8:10 pm
Dear Family, Just heard about your loss. Louise was a dear friend and we shared many times of our living in Sycamore, attending church at Needmore and “our dogs”, our families and our daily life in the country. Living in Springfield now and not doing highway driving I cannot attend services but you will be in my prayers.
Connie Camden
March 12, 2018 @ 8:36 am
My prayers go to the family. Louise was one of the sweetest kindest women I have ever met. She always had a smile on her face when I would see her. Many hugs to all.