Patricia Sue Hight
Patricia Sue Hight, 72, West Plains, passed from this earth at 3:30 p.m. on September 11, 2019 from complications related to metastatic breast cancer. She died at home surrounded by loving family and friends who sang her on her way.
A celebration of Pat’s life will be on Sunday, October 20, 2019 at 2:00 p.m. in the Langston Street Chapel of Robertson-Drago Funeral Home, 120 Langston Avenue, West Plains, Missouri. Refreshments and visiting will follow the service.
Pat was born July 1, 1947, in Springfield, Missouri to Mae Lavonne Jones Hight and Earl Edward Hight, and was preceded in death by her parents, her brother Richard “Bub” Hight and her father in law Clarence Bruenjes. Her revered elder was her Grandma Virgie.
She is survived by her wife Lois Reborne, her brother Dan Hight and his partner Sheryl Reed, longtime friend Marideth Sisco, her chosen children Jim Markley, Lisa Markley and Amy Markley Watson, grandchildren Adrianna, Alayanna, Evan and Lilah, and great-grandchildren Jaxon and Ava; and beloved family including uncle Dale Jones, cousins Bill Jones, Shelly Jones and Sue Burrell and niece Melissa Hight. She also leaves behind countless dear friends including a bevy of cherished fellow artists.
Those who knew her knew she liked hats, which was good, because she wore so many of them: Potter, Teaching Artist, Printmaker, Drummer, Feminist Humanist, Unitarian Universalist, Naturalist, Storyteller, and unabashed Progressive.
She was also a finalist for the National Merit Scholarship, earning a scholarship to Washington University where she studied the History of Ideas for three years, but left when her scholarship would not support her desire to also study art. She finished her BFA degree at Missouri State University in 1985. Some of her more far-reaching contributions include the role of founding member of both the Missouri Friends of the Folk Arts and the Midwest Wimmin’s Festival, and as a consultant to the founders of the Michigan Womyn’s Festival. Pat was a teaching artist for more than fifteen years, working as an artist in residence in local schools. She loved to conduct raku firings for school art classes, community art fairs and for local folks either on her farm or at the Hammond Mill picnic grounds overlooking the North Fork River. She also taught as a Master Naturalist and artist, encouraging hundreds of youngsters to use a kick net in a local river to catch and identify macroinvertebrates, to make sketches of plants and bugs they found in their schoolyards, then make those into linoleum block prints, and to draw with charcoal sticks in the style of L. L. Broadfoot at the Harlin Museum.
The family extends its endless gratitude to the oncology team at OMC. Your expertise, care, and compassion made all the difference to us. Pat’s persistence and energy combined with the excellent treatment she was prescribed gave her nearly six years of life which she otherwise might never have had, where she continued to create art, grow vegetables and flowers, kayak the local rivers, travel, and enjoy the birds and trees and people she loved. You are ever in our hearts.
In lieu of flowers, donations to defray final expenses are much appreciated and may be left at Robertson Drago Funeral Home or brought to the service.
We will always love you, dear Pat. We will never forget you.
Robert C Patrick
October 12, 2019 @ 8:37 am
Pat was simply a wonderful person. As a lifelong craftsman, musician and artist, I appreciated her pottery and art. We became friends when we first me and I will always remember her as a great person and friend.
Carol A. McInnis
October 12, 2019 @ 9:30 am
I am so glad and thankful that our informal and nontraditional book club enabled me to know Pat on a much deeper level than I had before and to experience in a personal way her intellectual acumen, delightful sense of humor, and straightforward and loving personality. In her understated way, Pat always dressed smartly with a taste in simple clothing and unique pieces of jewelry that reflected her chic, artistic nature. But her love of gardening and the earth and rivers were as basic and profound as her relationship with those of us who found in her a true and trusted friend. I shared her love of art, which somehow connected us on a deeper level, and I treasure the two pieces of pottery she made — one a simple blue plate with a terra cotta rim that could be wall-mounted — made just for me during the summer of her death. On the day that I picked it up at her and Lois’s home, Pat and I visited for an hour or so, giving me one more opportunity to know her better and appreciate who she was. I extend my deepest regards and affection to her wife, Lois, whose grief and emptiness I understand personally, along with the reassurance that time will assuage the pain and reinforce the joyous memories.
Lisa Lutz
October 12, 2019 @ 10:34 am
Pat . You inspired me in every way in the very short time we knew each other.
Was so thankful for sharing any time with you.
Know I will remember you when we meet again.
r.d.
October 12, 2019 @ 8:40 pm
Sending love & light to heal your wounded heart
Lois Reborne
October 15, 2019 @ 5:27 pm
Thank you RD. I will put it to immediate use.
Shelley Jones
October 13, 2019 @ 1:05 pm
I just read this to Uncle Dale Jones and my brother Bill. This was a lovely tribute to a wonderful women of many hats and colors. She was so kind and we loved her dearly, there will Never Be Another like her <3 Thanks to all of her friends and famliy that guided her safely and comfortablly into another journey. I will miss her stories and curiousness of everything.
Love from the Family Jones'
Lois Reborne
October 17, 2019 @ 2:05 pm
Thank you, Shelley. She so enjoyed the times you all got together. I wish I could come to Bill’s gig on Friday! Pat would have loved it. Our esteemed local sax player is going to play blues solo for the service. My love to all of you.
Lois
Lynn Anthony
December 19, 2021 @ 2:49 pm
Lois, I was saddened to come across this today; saddened beyond words, of course.
I send you and your family all my love.
Would love to be in touch,
Lynn Anthony
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