Tina Marie Grayham
Funeral services for Tina Marie Grayham, 51, Henderson, Arkansas, will be held at 2:00 p.m., Thursday, January 25, 2024, at First Baptist Church, Bakersfield, Missouri, under the direction of Robertson-Drago Funeral Home.
Mrs. Grayham passed away peacefully January 16, 2024, after a long battle with cancer.
She was born May 31, 1972 in Fort Benning Georgia, the youngest child and only daughter of Darrell and Shirley Belt. She grew up as an army brat, until the family settled back in the Bakersfield, Missouri area in 1982. She was quick to say she was a daddy’s girl. Her two older brothers are probably partially responsible for her toughness, while she inherited some of her doting over her kids from her mom. She graduated from Bakersfield High School in 1990 and worked at the Hitchin’ Post Cafe in Caulfield for many years, forming many close friendships in that time. On December 27 1990, she married Ronnie Grayham, the love of her life. Her true calling in life was realized with the birth of her children, Whitney Marie and Jacob Hunter. Devoted isn’t a strong enough word to describe her as a mother. She dedicated her life to her children, being involved in every school activity and sporting event they endeavored. The family’s dedication to one another would later be strengthened further by the formation of the family farm, where they worked side by side. Tina loved the farm life and all of her animals. She had a natural nurturing heart. Her first grandbaby, Titus, was born just a few short weeks ago, and we know she would have been the best MawMaw ever, if given the chance. Tina did not light up every room when she walked into it. She would have rolled her eyes if you said she did. What she did do was liven up every room she walked into. She was a force. She was authentic. She faced life, and even cancer, head on. She was a fighter until the end. The sorrow felt by her passing is surpassed by the blessings to have known and loved her. She was a Christian and was baptized with her family on July 26, 2009, and we look forward to a sweet reunion one day. Tina is survived by her husband, Ronnie Grayham; her daughter, Whitney Grayham; her son, Jacob Grayham and his wife Mariah; her grandson, Titus Grayham; her mother, Shirley Belt; two brothers, John Belt and wife, Tabitha and Rocky Belt and wife, Vicki; aunt, Linda and her husband Kevin Walker; several nieces, nephews and great-nieces and nephews; and her dear friends, Amy Ingalsbe and Kari Belt.
Visitation services will be held from 6:00 until 8:00 p.m., Wednesday, at Robertson-Drago Funeral Home. Burial will be at Bakersfield Cemetery. Memorial contributions may be made to American Cancer Society and may be left at or mailed to Robertson-Drago Funeral Home, 211 West Main, West Plains, MO 65775.
joe and Linda Smith
January 21, 2024 @ 6:20 pm
Ronnie, Jacob and Whitney . Linda and I are so sorry. We, of all people, really do
understand. We just don’t understand why. Joey and Linda
Jackie Wyatt
January 22, 2024 @ 9:27 am
Tina is my niece and she will be greatly missed by all her family and friends . So sorry for my sister loss of her daughter and to her brothers and husband and children. May God be with them all
Sherry Patterson
January 22, 2024 @ 1:47 pm
Ronnie, Whitney, and Jacob my sincerest, heartfelt, condolences go out to you.
Susan Sasseen
January 22, 2024 @ 2:53 pm
Much love and condolences to Tina’s family and her friends who were her extended family. May she rest in peace. Susan Sasseen
Stephanie (Dihel) Lindsey
January 23, 2024 @ 11:49 am
My heart goes out to your family and to her friends. May she rest in peace. And may God Bless you all.
Darrel and Margaret
January 23, 2024 @ 5:15 pm
Ronnie, Whitney, Jacob, and Mariah, Kay, Shirley, Kari and all the family and friends we are so very sorry about Tina, our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Kris and Greg Hubbard
January 23, 2024 @ 8:48 pm
Our thoughts and prayers are with you All. God Bless
Danita Wolf
January 24, 2024 @ 3:53 pm
Dear Family and friends,
All our thoughts and prayers are with you all in the days to come.
Neal and Patti Hicks
January 24, 2024 @ 5:25 pm
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Tina was a very sweet person.
Kim and family
January 25, 2024 @ 5:03 pm
Our family is at loss of words for all of you..Cousins from the city as she would say, ..she was a phenomenal person with a big heart and will be missed dearly. Prayers for her family, and aunt Shirley and John and family, Rocky and family. Love you all!!